I know. It’s been over a month.
It actually was funny, because last night, John asked me if I had written on here in a while. I, shamefully, said no. 😦
So here I am!
And I’ve been doing a lot of thinking recently regarding comparisons.
Comparing children. Comparing days. Comparing siblings. Comparisons are around us all the time – to the point that babycenter.com sends us Emails, weekly, to let us know what our children are supposed to be doing.
But, sometimes they aren’t.
And then people panic.
Constantly and consistently, people are always wondering what milestones your child has met. When I explain Jackson’s needs, I’m sure that some people feel that I overreacted – but obviously, I didn’t. Jackson has done more in the past 6-8 months (but mostly the past 2 months!) than I would have ever imagined. His language has completely exploded. He points out every airplane (or, pah-pane, to him!) that flies over our house (which, by the way, is every 5-20 minutes. aaaah), bus, car, tree, cat, dog.. you name it, it points at it. And screams what it is. With a huge smile on his face.
He knows so many words and is talking so much that I can barely contain myself. This morning, he said “I don’t know” in his own little special way.
But, society is so obsessed with comparing our children. And, sometimes – sure, it’s a good thing. But other times, it completely sucks.
There are so many interactions between him and Grace. Grace has a name for him and calls herself “Gigi” because that’s what he calls her. Sure, when I compare, I see how much more advanced she is than he was at her age – which just makes me feel better about the decisions that John and I have made for him. Jackson says “shhh, Gigi” when I put him to bed because she’s asleep in the crib next to his. They bathe together and blow raspberries at each other and play meal time games to see who they can get to pick up their water sippy cup more. (Not such a fun game for us!)
The bottom line, is – I am so thrilled with all the progress they have both made – Jackson and Grace, individually – and as a pair.
I am feeling incredibly grateful today.